Lessons I Learned from My Dog About Embracing a Simple Life
In the heart of a bustling city, a writer found solace and inspiration in an unlikely companion—a dog named Guinness. Diagnosed with osteosarcoma, an aggressive form of bone cancer in dogs, Guinness's life was cut short when he was just eight years old. Yet, during the time they spent together, Guinness taught his human friend valuable lessons about living simply, mindfully, and with presence.
The author declined a commemorative paw print from the vet clinic, as they already had paw prints all over their life—on furniture, shoes, and other items. These reminders of Guinness will remain written all over the author's heart, even when they fade or wash away.
Guinness was not worried about what came next, what was on tomorrow's schedule, or how much time they had. Instead, he lived in the moment, fully engaging with his present experience without worrying about the past or future. This simple lesson taught the author to savor simple pleasures like walks, play, and quiet moments, finding delight in everyday experiences.
One of the most profound lessons Guinness imparted was acceptance. Dogs accept whatever life brings their way—new homes, people, or situations—without resistance. This taught the author to surrender to reality as it is, reducing stress from trying to control everything. Guinness's acceptance inspired the author to let go quickly, as he didn't hold grudges.
Guinness was a model of joyful service to others. He selflessly sought to make others happy, whether through companionship or work like therapy service. This unconditional giving without expectation or obligation reminded the author of the importance of serving others and finding joy in doing so.
By following their natural instincts and trusting their carers, dogs show the value of trusting life and others rather than constantly trying to exert control or dominate. This lesson helped the author to be gentle in their relationships, health, and work, fostering authentic connections based on mutual respect and understanding.
The tumor in Guinness's leg had eaten away most of the bone, causing him pain. Yet, despite his suffering, Guinness remained present, teaching the author to find resilience and forgiveness in the face of adversity. Ninety-five percent of dogs with osteosarcoma do not live past the six-month mark, but Guinness defied the odds, living for several more months.
The author started simplifying their life by downsizing from a big house to an apartment half the size when Guinness was seven years old. They used the same things over and over again in their closet and kitchen, finding joy in the simplicity of their possessions. This lesson helped the author to be present too, which simplified their life, added joy, and made them curious about slowing down.
The author remembers going outside with Guinness and feeling more relaxed and happy afterwards. Guinness was the author's friend, baby, and healer. The author wrote about Guinness on their blog, Instagram, and in a chapter of the book "Soulful Simplicity" called "You Are Written All Over My Heart."
After Guinness's passing, the author got a dog named Bailey from a local animal shelter. Bailey, like Guinness, has taught the author valuable lessons about living simply and mindfully. The author continues to be inspired by their canine companions to live with less stress and more presence, cherishing the simple moments in life.
Inspired by Guinness's brief, yet impactful presence, the author adopted a home-and-garden philosophy, downsizing from a large house to a smaller apartment. They discovered joy in the simplicity of their remaining possessions.
Remembering Bailey's unconditional love, the author recognized the importance of practicing education-and-self-development, specifically personal-growth. This led them to embrace a lifestyle focused on mindfulness, presence, and joyful service to others.
The author's pets, Guinness and Bailey, taught them the importance of health, both physical and mental. Learning from their dogs' acceptance, resilience, and forgiveness, the author strives to lead a life that embraces life's ups and downs with grace, finding solace in the power of presence.
